I swear, I think my husband gets off on being miserable!
I really think he has a problem with being happy. No matter what happens, he manages to find the bad in the situation. (He could win the lottery and would bitch about having to pay taxes on it.)
We’ve been going through a tough financial situation lately and finally have a chance to turn things around. Is he happy? Nooooooooo! (said in my whinniest voice) All he can say is we can’t count on anything. Yeah, I get that – but it’s a step in the right direction! Deal!
He’s just not happy unless he’s miserable. I hate it! How do I make him see? Is there a way to make him less pessimistic?